How to See Yourself Through God’s Eyes
Have you ever wondered, What is God’s purpose for me? For many Christian women, this question feels elusive, buried under the weight of past mistakes, cultural pressures, and self-doubt. Robin Melvin, author of Uncover Your Divine Design, knows this struggle firsthand. Her book offers a transformational journey to uncover who God created you to be and embrace your identity as His beloved creation.
Robin shares how, at almost 50 years old, she finally confronted unhealthy thought patterns that were holding her back. “After decades of pouring into my family, I was excited to pursue something new,” she says. But when it came time to take action, Robin found herself paralyzed. With the help of a psychologist friend, she uncovered the deep-seated mindsets and habits—shaped by culture and family dynamics—that had hidden her God-given identity.
What Does It Mean to Embrace Your God-Given Identity?
Robin describes our God-given identity as being “created in His image, with His spiritual nature and qualities.” She calls it our “original glory,” quoting Ephesians 1:4: “Long before He laid down earth’s foundations, He had us in mind, had settled on us as the focus of His love, to be made whole and holy in His love.”
But too often, this truth is obscured by lies and shame. “These lies are sneaky and automatic,” Robin explains. “Left unchecked, they rob us of knowing who we are in Christ.”
Common obstacles, such as perfectionism, jealousy, and the performance trap, distract us from seeing ourselves through God’s eyes. Instead, we strive for approval, thinking, “I’ll never measure up” or “I’m not enough.” Robin urges us to replace these lies with the truth: God designed us, so only He gets to define us.
How to Start Seeing Yourself as God Sees You
For those struggling with negative self-perceptions, Robin emphasizes the importance of renewing your mind with Scripture. “Romans 12:2 tells us that we can be transformed into a new person by changing the way we think,” she explains. This transformation involves surrendering unhealthy thoughts and allowing God’s truth to take root in your heart.
Robin also encourages filling your “emotional cup” with God’s thoughts about you. “First, we let God define us,” she says. “Then, anything we receive from others is simply an overflow of His blessings.”
Robin’s Personal Breakthrough
One of Robin’s most moving breakthroughs came when she finally forgave her past self. “At 41, I was overwhelmed with shame and self-hatred,” she recalls. “But God showed me the truth. I stopped calling myself a lush, liar, or whore. I started to see how God saw me—not just in my struggles, but in my redemption.”
This turning point illustrates a powerful truth: seeing yourself through God’s eyes isn’t about perfection; it’s about embracing the grace He offers us each day.
If you’re searching for God’s purpose for me and longing to live in the freedom of your divine design, Robin’s message is clear: You were created with love, for love, and by Love. It’s time to see yourself the way God sees you—whole, worthy, and wonderfully His.
Ready to take the next step?
Robin Melvin’s journey and insights are just the beginning. In the first chapter of Uncover Your Divine Design, Robin dives deeper into uncovering toxic mindsets, embracing God’s truth, and stepping into the life He created for you.
Discover how to stop striving, start trusting, and live with the freedom of knowing who you are in Christ.
Read the first chapter now and begin your transformation today. 💖
