Marriage is one of God’s greatest gifts, but it isn’t always easy. The demands of life—work, kids, and even stress—can leave couples feeling disconnected. But here’s the truth: Today, you can strengthen your marriage. Cathy Krafve, author of Marriage Conversations: From Co-Existing to Cherished, offers practical ways to rebuild trust, deepen connection, and rediscover God’s purpose for me and my marriage.
“Marriage isn’t about just surviving,” Cathy says. “It’s about thriving together, creating intimacy and fellowship that reflect God’s design for your relationship.”
Why Strengthening Your Marriage Starts Today
Cathy believes that small, intentional steps taken today can transform your marriage for years to come. “We often wait for a big breakthrough,” she explains. “But real change happens in the small, daily choices to love, listen, and forgive.”
One of the first steps is communication. “When communication breaks down, intimacy follows,” Cathy says. “Rebuilding starts with open, affirming conversations. Ask your spouse how they’re feeling and be vulnerable about your own needs.”
Another critical step is forgiveness. Cathy highlights the importance of Colossians 3:13: “Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you.” “Forgiveness isn’t a one-time event,” she explains. “It’s a daily choice to release anger and open your heart to healing.”
Three Ways to Strengthen Your Marriage Today
- Communicate with Intention:
Start a conversation with your spouse today. “Ask open-ended questions like, ‘How are you really feeling?’ or ‘What do you need from me right now?’” Cathy suggests. “These small moments of connection can reignite trust.” - Make Forgiveness a Habit:
Forgiveness creates space for intimacy to grow. “When you choose forgiveness, you free yourself and your spouse from bitterness,” Cathy says. “It’s the cornerstone of any strong marriage.” - Rediscover Joy Together:
Reconnect through shared experiences. Cathy recalls, “David and I started enjoying live music together. It wasn’t about the music—it was about having fun as a couple.”
God’s Purpose for Me Through Marriage
Marriage is more than a partnership—it’s a spiritual journey. “God’s purpose for me in marriage isn’t just about happiness,” Cathy explains. “It’s about refinement, teaching us to love like Christ and to reflect His love to the world.”
Cathy encourages couples to embrace the daily work of building a strong marriage. “Every time you choose love, forgiveness, or connection, you step closer to the relationship God designed for you.”
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Frequently Asked Questions About Strengthening Your Marriage
Why should I work on my marriage today?
The small choices you make today can lead to long-term transformation. Start with a simple step like affirming your spouse or sharing a meaningful conversation.
How can I rebuild trust in my marriage?
Rebuilding trust begins with forgiveness and vulnerability. Be honest about your feelings and commit to small, consistent actions that restore connection.
What’s one practical way to strengthen my marriage?
Spend time together doing something you both enjoy, whether it’s a walk, a date night, or a shared hobby. Joy strengthens emotional bonds.
